To be the king or the servant?

Are we always right? What is perspective? one's medicine could be the other's poison...
Do we really know what ppl ard us are actually thinking about...

Well, i think to me the ans is no....not matter how close you are to the person...
If you do...pls dun talk to the person...is there a need? since you could expect the next sentence...
is there pleasure in communicating anymore?

Do you feel upset when ppl's ideas dun seem to fit yours?
everyone has their own list of do's & don't's....
should we even expect others to think like us?
I really dun noe...i've tried...it always dun work...
mainly becos we close our ears & hearts more often then the train closes its doors

sometimes we assume/think/understand wad the other person is going thru...
we dun....it is true... we dun really understand...becos we dun go thru the pain...
different ppl go thru different 'pains' in their life...
whether it could be seen or not....is another thing...
we can be jealous or the other person's family, love life, intelligence, talents...
but we did not realise we have things the others do not have....

For someone who comes from a happy family...
it's hard to understand someone who feels betrayed my their close ones...
For someone who easily make friends & are easily accepted by ppl
it's hard to understand someone who has been betrayed/forsaken by friends...
For someone who was constantly loved & has a wonderful partner
it's hard to understand someone who suffers from loneliness...

But then, comforting with a sincere heart is a good tool to overwrite those "i do not understand" moments....

When can i closed my eyes and fade those judgements,
so that i could hear with my heart...
i must say...it's hard when yr heart is bleeding in pain...